{"id":8598,"date":"2015-03-21T11:47:38","date_gmt":"2015-03-21T17:47:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ncobrief.com\/?p=8598"},"modified":"2015-03-21T12:07:32","modified_gmt":"2015-03-21T18:07:32","slug":"i-am-woman-hear-me-roar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/archives\/i-am-woman-hear-me-roar\/","title":{"rendered":"I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 and then turn around and whine because some cis-male said something, or looked something, and I feel so \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 so threatened! Look, girls\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6ladies \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 possessor of a vagina or whatever you want to be addressed as this week in vernacular fashion; can you just please pick one attitude and stick to it? Frankly, this inconsistency is embarrassing the hell out of me (sixty-ish, small-f feminist in the long-ago dark days when there was genuine no-s*it gender inequality in education, job opportunities and pay-scales to complain about and campaign for redress thereof)<\/em>. This is also annoying to my daughter, the thirtyish Marine Corps veteran of two hitches. The Daughter Unit is actually is very close loosing patience entirely with those of the sisterhood who are doing this \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Woman Powerful!-Woman Poor Downtrodden Perpetual Victim!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d bait and switch game. So am I, actually, but I have thirty years experience in biting my tongue when it comes to the antics of the Establishment Professional Capital-F Feminist crowd.<\/p>\n

See \u00e2\u20ac\u201c it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s an either-or proposition. Either you are strong, capable, intelligent and have thick enough of a skin or at least a toleration and sufficient understanding of the world in general, and the male of our sex in particular to forge your way enthusiastically through the world, throwing off the slings and arrows of outrageous misfortune, the occasional sex-based misunderstanding, the overheard crude joke, the inability of many of the males of our species to attend to details of housekeeping or good organizational order, and their juvenile enthusiasm for sexual congress under circumstances and with co-conspirators which \u00e2\u20ac\u201c the less said of that the better. That is the attitude that my daughter and I personally favor; we take no stick, and when someone \u00e2\u20ac\u201c male or female tries it, we hand it back face to face with generous interest. That\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s what strong, capable and intelligent women do.<\/p>\n

It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s either that or the conventions of womanhood which held sway in popular Victorian culture. That is \u00e2\u20ac\u201c one who is too fine, too delicate and too gentle to endure exposure, even by the slightest suggestion to any of the above \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 like tweeting a picture of two guys overheard making a crude joke<\/a> and setting off an internet meltdown which resulted in firings, internet shamings, death threats and everything but the burning of Atlanta. Seriously, what Ms Richards overheard and took exception to \u00e2\u20ac\u201c essentially complaining to a wide audience that \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Ohhh \u00e2\u20ac\u201c those awful men were making me feel threatened! Make them stop!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/em> was relatively mild when compared to some of the conversations I overheard (or sometimes participated in) while in the military. I can only imagine the degree of absolute meltdown if Ms Richards had heard some of them \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 and yes, both my daughter and I have often been the only woman, or one of a handful of women in a sea of men. <\/p>\n

So, strong, capable and equal \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 or frail, sensitive and desperate for that fainting couch; pick one or the other and stick to it consistently. At the very least, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t talk like one, and act like the other. It only confuses the guys and embarrasses the heck out of women like me. <\/p>\n

(Crossposted at Chicagoboyz) <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 and then turn around and whine because some cis-male said something, or looked something, and I feel so \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 so threatened! Look, girls\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6ladies \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 possessor of a vagina or whatever you want to be addressed as this week in vernacular fashion; can you just please pick one attitude and stick to it? Frankly, this […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,71,15,5,16],"tags":[535,536,410],"class_list":["post-8598","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aint-that-america","category-fun-and-games","category-home-front","category-media-matters-not","category-military","tag-adria-richards","tag-internet","tag-twitter"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8598","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8598"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8598\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8598"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8598"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ncobrief.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8598"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}