06. January 2005 · Comments Off on As long as I’m linking…. · Categories: A Href, General

Varifrank has another excellent post, where General McAuliffe (he of “Nuts!” fame) comes back to life and gives a press conference about Iraq. My particular fave section of it goes like this (italics are McAuliffe):

You people talk about the resolve of the “insurgents” but you never talk about the resolve of the people who have come across the globe for no other purpose than to free other men from tyranny. By your actions you have done more to empower the enemy than any of the madmen that have been fighting us. You shower then in glory when you should be shaming them by their actions.

Sir-David-of-NBC decided to try to trip up the General with the tried and true trick of the none too subtle use of the “race card”,

“General, when you talk about “the enemy”, are you referring to Islam?”

He let out a hiss and shook his head. “Son, The enemies that our country has been fighting has always been the same, even when the enemy was our brothers in the confederacy”. “ The Enemy” is the enemy of mankind. “The Enemy” is any person or power who believes that one man is the property of another. “The Enemy” is any person or power who seeks to destroy instead of build, imprison rather than embrace, Starve rather than feed. “ The Enemy” from my time wore different uniforms and came from a different places than yours, but they were the same. “The Enemy” you fight today are no different than the men who met me with the demands of surrender in a farmhouse in Bastone. The men who marched a generation into camps and killed them en masse are still here today. The difference is, in my day, we were appalled and disgusted. In your day, so long as its not Americans doing it, you ignore it. Pol Pot kills 7 million people, you said nothing, Rwanda, Iraq, Darfur the list goes on and yet, because America is not the force that caused it, you excuse it. Frankly, some of you even defend it.

Son, if you and yours in this room continue to give these people the mantle of legitimacy, then the men under my command who died back there in Bastone will have died in vain. The war against the enemy of mankind didn’t end in Berlin or Tokyo or Seoul, that war goes on today. That war is being fought by men and women every bit as brave as the men who I served with in the past.

06. January 2005 · Comments Off on Worth Repeating… · Categories: A Href, General

My favorite retired USAF reservist, Baldilocks, points to a post by Varifrank, wherein he waxes eloquent regarding US relief efforts for the tsunami survivors.

Juliette quoted this portion (below) of Varifrank’s post, which made me curious to read the rest of it. The excerpt is more powerful when you read the entire post. The speaker is a Hindi man, who lost family in the disaster. He was responding to someone else’s sneering comment about the US military aid. Apparently the sarcastic commenter saw no value in sending an aircraft carrier. Varifrank set them straight, and then his friend spoke up:

"Can you let your hatred of George Bush end for just one minute?
There are people dying! And what are your countries doing? Amazon.com
has helped more than France has. You all have a role to play in the
world, why can’t you see that? Thank God for the US Navy, they dont
have to come and help, but they are. They helped you once and you
should all thank God they did. They didnt have to, and no one but them
would have done so. I’m ashamed of you all…
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04. January 2005 · Comments Off on Tsunami Relief Fund Drive at Cap’n Ed’s · Categories: General

Cap’n Ed, over at the Captain’s Quarters, is spearheading a fund drive for the Tsunami Relief fund at World Vision.

Ed’s suggestion is that those who can afford it donate their take-home pay on Jan 12.   One day’s pay, coming at a time that’s in between bill-paying for most folks, donated to a top-rated charity to help out those who are less fortunate than we are, right now.

If you can’t afford to donate an entire day’s pay, donate what you can.

He announced this idea on Jan 1, and as of Jan 4,  his readers have already raised over $10,000.    If  you’ve not donated anywhere yet, and were wondering where to give,  I respectfully  suggest you join Ed’s readers and help him reach his goal of raising $25K by Jan 12.

Click here to donate

26. December 2004 · Comments Off on Oops · Categories: General

The local Fox network just aired a commercial advertising tomorrow morning’s news-talkshow topics. They said “And Kevin Spacey will be talking about his new movie ‘Beyond the Sea,’ the autobiographical project….”

Ummm…. maybe I’m being nitpicky, but for it to be AUTO-biographical, wouldn’t Bobby Darin have to have written the screenplay? Maybe they meant biographical?

Or can someone set me straight on this? Was the movie based on a Bobby Darin autobio?

25. December 2004 · Comments Off on Christmas Stories · Categories: General

No, not one of the usual one. Baldilocks links to a post at The Banty Rooster, where he tells about his brother who is a Capt serving in Iraq. Seems his brother was reading Foxnews.com and saw that SecDef was in town. Of course, they figured he would never come to their part of town, but it seems that he did. Now, Capt Dan works in a hospital over there, and was in the OR when SecDef came to visit the hospital, but just as he was wheeling his patient to recovery, they came across the entourage.

The post recounts SecDef’s encounter with the wounded GI on the stretcher, and it’s one of the best Christmas stories I’ve read this season.

And BlackFive brings us another Christmas story, this one of USO volunteers and reservist families, and how the USO helped those families’ Christmas be bright, even though their loved ones were deployed.

24. December 2004 · Comments Off on Gratitude · Categories: General

To all who sacrifice so that we may live in peace and freedom, I thank you, and I pray that this holiday may be the last one you spend away from your loved ones.

Merry Christmas!

23. December 2004 · Comments Off on Merry Christmas! · Categories: General

I’m heading into the frozen midwest today (Friday) to spend some time with my dad and the rest of the family (cue soundtrack: “I’ll be home for Christmas”). I always tell them “If you ever wonder if I love you, remember that I come NORTH in the wintertime, just to visit y’all.”

Anyway, I’ve been listening to Christmas music for the past 4 weeks, and pondering which song to share with the world on the festive day. I’m choosing one that was Mom’s favorite. More of a poem than a song, actually. Grandpa Jones recorded it originally (he was a country comedian/singer, a billion years ago), and she always loved it.

In 1996, I was driving home for Christmas, listening to my new Reba McEntire Christmas CD, and durned if I didn’t hear her begin to recite the poem. So I copied out the lyrics for Mom, and my brother fancied them up on his computer with fancy fonts and whatever, and made it fit on one page for her. She made copies and included it in her Christmas cards the next year.

“The Christmas Guest”
(Grandpa Jones/Bill Walker)

It happened one day near December’s end
Two neighbors called on an old friend
And they found his shop so meager and lame
Made gay with a thousand bows of green
And Conrad was sittin’ with face ashine
When he suddenly stopped as he stiched a twine

And he said “Oh friends at dawn today
When the cock was crowin’ the night away
The Lord appeared in a dream to me
And said ‘I’m comin’ your guest to be.’

So I’ve been busy with feet astir
And strewin’ my shop with branches of fir
The table is spread and the kettle is shined
And over the rafters the holly is twined

Now I’ll wait for my Lord to appear
And listen closely so I will hear His step
As He nears my humble place
And I’ll open the door and look on His face”

So his friends went home and left Conrad alone
For this was the happiest day he’d known
For long since his family had passed away

And Conrad had spent many a sad Christmas day
But he knew with the Lord as his Christmas guest
This Christmas would be the dearest and best
So he listened with only joy in his heart

And with every sound he would rise with a start
And look for the Lord to be at his door
Like the vision he’d had a few hours before
So he ran to the window after hearin’ a sound

But all he could see on the snow-covered ground
Was a shabby begger who’s shoes were torn
And all of his clothes were ragged and worn
But Conrad was touched and he went to the door

And he said “You know, your feet must be frozen and sore
I have some shoes in my shop for you
And a coat that’ll keep you warmer too”
So with grateful heart, the man went away

But Conrad noticed the time of day
And wondered what made the Lord so late
And how much longer he’d have to wait
When he heard a knock he ran to the door
But it was only a stranger once more

A bent ol’ lady with a shawl of black
With a bundle of kindlin’ piled on her back
She asked for only a place to rest
But that was reserved for Conrad’s great guest

But her voice seemed to plead “Don’t send me away
Let me rest for awhile on Christmas day”
So Conrad brewed her a steamin’ cup
And told her to sit at the table and sup

But after she left he was filled with dismay
For he saw that the hours were slippin’ away
And the Lord hadn’t come as He said He would
And Conrad felt sure he’d misunderstood
When out of the stillness he heard a cry
“Please help me, and tell me where am I!”

So again he opened his friendly door
And stood disappointed as twice before
It was only a child who’d wandered away
And was lost from her family on Christmas day

Again, Conrad’s heart was heavy and sad
But he knew he should make the little girl glad
So he called her in and he wiped her tears
And quieted all her childish fears

Then he led her back to her home once more
But as he entered his own darkened door
He knew the Lord was not comin’ today
For the hours of Christmas had passed away

So he went to his room and he knelt down to pray
And he said “Dear Lord, why did You delay?
What kept You from comin’ to call on me?
For I wanted so much Your Face to see”

When soft in the silence, a voice he heard
“Lift up your head, for I kept my word
Three times my shadow crossed your floor
And three times I came to your lonely door

I was the begger with bruised, cold feet
And I was the woman you gave somethin’ to eat
I was the child on the homeless street.
Three times I knocked and three times I came in
And each time I found the warmth of a friend

Of all the gifts love is the best
And I was honored to be your Christmas guest.”

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Update before I even finish creating the post – my Dad just called. He says Dayton (where I’m flying into) is under a snow emergency, and I won’t be able to leave the city if I do fly in, so I should just stay home. *sigh* I’m still debating, and heading off to research the weather. I had thought they would have the highways cleared by tomorrow.

21. December 2004 · Comments Off on A Guardian Angel · Categories: A Href, General

Baldilocks did a milblog roundup, and as I was surfing her links today, I ran across this post that moved me to tears (y’all may have figured out by now that I’m easily moved, but this one is really special.) You need to scroll down a couple to find it. It’s called “The Heart of an American.”

This particular post is about a little guardian angel for a convoy of Humvees. She had recently been given a Beanie Baby ™ by a Marine, and she was clutching it to her chest while she sat in the middle of the street, forcing the Hummers to drive around her. Go read the story, folks. It’s well worth your time.

And it’s a good time to remind you that we, too, can be angels to someone else. ‘Tis the season, after all. Box up those toys and school supplies, and ship them off to a number of grass-roots organizations that will pass them on to the Iraqi children.

The two I’m most familiar with are Chief Wiggles’ Operation Give (currently receiving free shipping from FEDEX), and Sgt Hook’s Operation ShoeFly. Operation Give goes to Iraq, while ShoeFly gives to Afghanistan. There are others out there, I know.

Feel free to add the ones you know about in the comments section, and I’ll consolidate them into one post either tomorrow or Thursday.

19. December 2004 · Comments Off on Ardennes, Belgium. December 16, 1944 · Categories: General

We seem to have missed mentioning this particular event here at The Daily Brief. To be perfectly honest, for most of my life Dec 16 only meant I needed to send a birthday card to my uncle Jack.

But this year, especially, we should have marked the date, and mentioned Germany’s Ardennes Offensive. This year marked 60 anniversaries of that coldest winter in memory, when over 1 million soldiers froze and fought together over a small town that intersected several main highways.

The town is named Bastogne, and the Ardennes Offensive is more familiar to us as The Battle of the Bulge.

The Cassandra Page posted about it, and I just got around to his blog today to read his commentary. On following the links he posted, I found one survivor has posted his war diary online. John Kline was a member of the 106th Infantry Division in Dec 1944.

In his words:

On 16 December 1944, the day the battle started, I was a 19 year old Sergeant, heavy machine gun squad leader (30 cal water cooled) turning twenty on January 10, 1945.

The 106th Infantry Division, my division, was spread over a 21 mile front. Normally a division covers five miles. We received the initial thrust of the German counter-offensive. I was captured on 19 December, 1944. I spent four months as a Prisoner of War, walking over 525 miles, with a loss of 50 pounds of “fighting” body weight. I was only in a sheltered camp for one month and one week..

I’ll be reading his war diary shortly.

My own memories of Bastogne are of a much more peaceful time. In 1988, Uncle Sam saw fit to reassign me to Florennes AB, Belgium, not far from the Meuse river that the Germans were trying to reach. Bastogne was just a name on a map to me. I had heard of the Battle of the Bulge, but only vaguely, because my high school history classes rarely made it much past the Great Depression, and spent very little time on the history of WWII. And my own personal interest in history stopped with the invention of the automobile. I thought anything after that was very mechanized, and lacked human interest (ah, the folly of youth). This impression was furthered by my friends who were boys, who were only interested in planes and tanks and army trucks as their playtoys. I was far more interested in horses than in tanks or airplanes, so I closed my mind to the marvels of our 20th century.

Until Belgium.

In Dinant, Belgium, there is a cathedral topped with an onion dome. Above the cathedral, on the cliff overlooking the River Meuse, is a citadel. Behind the citadel is a cemetery filled with American and Canadian soldiers, who lost their lives there during WWI.

In Namur, Belgium, also on the River Meuse, there is a fortress that was impregnable, until Hitler’s soldiers parachuted into it. It was taken over by the German commanders, and the underground rooms and tunnels were sealed and pumped full of pressurized air to protect them from gas attacks.

In Sugny, Belgium, there is a railroad bridge that stops halfway across the river. The residents of Sugny blew up the bridge, because the Germans were using it to send supplies to their troops. After the war, they chose to leave it destroyed.

If you drove out what used to be the main gate at Florennes, you passed a farmer’s field with cows grazing in it. The cows would shelter in old airplane bunkers left over from WWII.

In Hastiere, Belgium, where some good friends lived off-base, there is a church on the banks of the River Meuse. On the side of the church, facing the river, is a memorial. It’s written in French (the language of southern Belgium), and tells the story of German reprisals on the populace of the town.

In Diekirch, Luxembourg, mere blocks from a small building that has a Roman mosaic being excavated in its basement, is Musee’ d’Armes, dedicated to the Americans who liberated the town (and the country) in 1944-45.

WWII came alive to me in 1988, courtesy of Uncle Sam’s travel agency.

I first saw the town of Bastogne on a gorgeous September day, as friends and I were driving to Luxembourg to find a spot for our young-adult group to go camping. We wandered around the town square, climbed on the US Army tank that was there, and ate pastries at the local patisserie. It was not a big deal to me, as I was still mostly ignorant of its history. (I had not yet been to Musee d’Armes, and seen the dioramas of what our soldiers endured), We might have gone out to the memorial as well, I don’t recall. I was much more taken with the beautiful town of Vianden, and Bastogne was but a mark on a map, that day.

But I drove back through Bastogne on Nov 11, 1988, on my way home from NCO Leadership School in Germany. I was alone, and had time to spare, so I headed off to find the war memorial. It was a cold, foggy Belgian day. If you’ve ever been there in winter, you’ll understand the kind of day I mean. Visibility was extremely limited; you could see the row of trees that lined the road, but nothing beyond them.

As I wandered around the memorial, I kept looking at the fog-shrouded trees, expecting to see soldiers appear. It just felt like they could. I was on sacred ground that day, on a day that I consider to be sacred, as well.

The Bastogne Memorial was built by the Belgians in gratitude to the Americans that they credit with their liberation. It is designed in the shape of a 5-pointed star, with a circle in the center of it, which was the emblem they saw on our planes and tanks. Along the facing edge of the stars, they engraved the names of the 48 states. If you can climb a wrought-iron spiral staircase, you can walk along the top of the memorial, gazing over the field of battle. My vertigo prevented that, but I had no problem walking around the inside of the memorial, reading the words engraved on the 10 pillars there.

I cannot quote it word for word, this tale that begins with “On Dec 16, 1944….” But I can tell you part of what’s inscribed on the final panel.

“The Americans fought for this land as if it were their own.”

I tear up everytime I write those words. Everytime I tell them to someone when I’m describing that day. We fought for their country like it was our own.

That’s what we do, we American soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines. We give our all, so others won’t have to.

The spirit of those Bastogne fighters lives on today, in Iraq, and Afghanistan, and Bosnia, and on countless posts and bases and ships around the globe. I am grateful for that, and for those who have picked up the challenge, and are fighting on my behalf, and on behalf of freedom-loving people everywhere.

One time at my dad’s VFW post, I was talking to an old veteran sitting next to Dad, and the conversation of wars came up. We established that I had missed all of our wars, even during my active duty time. Then I asked him what he had seen. I knew he was most likely a WWII vet, simply because of his age.

“I was in the Battle of the Bulge,” he said to me.

And civilian though I was, I snapped to attention, and saluted him, as with tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat, I thanked him for protecting our country and theirs.
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Update: I’m thinking I might have meant Kosovo rather than Bosnia, in that 4th paragraph from the end. Or are we still in both countries?

And here’s a photo of Dinant, on the River Meuse.

Dinant, Belgium

Another update, to correct the name of the page where I found the links, and the gender of the author there. *embarassed smile*

17. December 2004 · Comments Off on Surfing…. · Categories: General

Daniel Henninger, over at OpinionJournal Online has an interesting commentary on how the Internet and wireless communication are affecting the actions of dissidents worldwide. (free registration required)

an excerpt:

Not that long ago, in 1989, the world watched demonstrators sit passively in Tiananmen Square and fight the authorities with little more than a papier-mâché Statue of Liberty. Poland’s Solidarity movement had to print protest material with homemade ink made from oil because the Communist government confiscated all the printers’ ink.

In 2004, in Ukraine’s Independence Square, they had cell phones.

Using the phones’ SMS messaging technology, demonstrators sent messages to meet to 10 or so friends, who’d each SMS the message to 10 more friends, and so on. It’s called “smart-mobbing.

On a lighter note, Angry Alien has done it again. If you’ve never been there, this website spoofs classic movies in a 30-second cartoon with bunnies as actors. They’ve covered “JAWS”, “Alien”, “Titanic”, and now “It’s a Wonderful Life.” Go check them out. It’s always nice to chuckle on Fridays.

17. December 2004 · Comments Off on Colin Powell for NACCP head? · Categories: General

Booker Rising makes a compelling case for Colin Powell to become the next head of the NAACP. It’s interesting reading.

15. December 2004 · Comments Off on As promised… · Categories: General

Sgt Mom, I need one copy of your book, autographed please? Do I click the link, or can I buy it directly from you via paypal?
(if I weren’t so dang lazy, I’d dig out the post where I promised to buy a copy if I got the job, and quote it here)

15. December 2004 · Comments Off on Anyone in San Antonio? · Categories: General

If so, do you know anything about heating/cooling? I need to replace the heat pump/AC Compressor on my rental house there, and the company that looked at it is quoting a big ole chunk of change to take care of it. I’m in Georgia, so I have no idea who to call in San Antonio.

Any ideas? THANK YOU 🙂

15. December 2004 · Comments Off on Two good posts · Categories: General

From baldilocks, we find links to these 2 posts (both of which made my eyes leak)…………

First is an exchangebetween an Air Traffic Controller and a couple pilots who were on different frequencies

Next up is an awesome Christmas poem for our troops – I’d not seen this one before.

12. December 2004 · Comments Off on New Beginnings · Categories: General

On January 10, after 1 year, 11 months, and 20 days of being unemployed or underemployed, I start a new job. Fulltime with benefits, in my career field, at a very reasonable and acceptable salary.

I’m grateful that I had the freedom to take my time finding a job. Since I only had to support me (and the dogs), I could choose to get established in grad school first, and then to work part-time until the right position appeared. Even so, it feels like a huge weight has been lifted, that I didn’t usually realize I was even carrying.

And I have 3 weeks to get used to getting up early in the morning again. Guess I need to find where I hid my alarm clock. LOL

Update: I also meant to add that had I been working, I might not have been as free to let myself grieve for Mom this past year. As it was, I was able to take time when I needed it, and process the emotions as they hit, instead of having to shove them aside while dealing with other stuff. That’s a blessing, as well.

12. December 2004 · Comments Off on Mid-December ponderings · Categories: General

The semester is all but ended – some last minute changes to assignments need to be made, but I have until later this week to finish them. The mad rush in the part-time job is over as well – the deadline for completion was Dec 11, and the target was reached, at least on my part. It’s 12:20am, and I’m curled up on the couch with my laptop, enjoying the remnants of my evening’s fire, and occasionally gazing around at the peacefully sleeping hounds (2 of whom are sharing the couch with me).

A peaceful night, or early morning, and given to thinking quiet thoughts, and remembering good memories.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately, as I’ve driven around my city doing this project for my part-time job. I’ve done a lot of talking to myself, and a lesser amount of talking to God, and occasionally, I’ve talked to Mom. Some of these internal conversations have centered around today’s date – Dec 12. What would it be like, I wondered. What would *I* be like on this date?

What does one do on a day like this? One part of me says “Stay home, and remember.” But a friend has offered to buy me lunch (or dinner), to celebrate my birthday and my new job. So… meet the friend, or say “I’m sorry, but I’m planning to be depressed on Sunday.” (I’m meeting the friend, but I left myself an opening to change my mind. She understands – good friends are like that).

I want to spend my day quietly… not rushing around, not working. Reflecting, and remembering. Honoring and affirming a life that’s gone, but also affirming that life goes on. So I’m planning on meeting my friend. We’ll eat, we’ll drink cappucino, we’ll reminisce and catch up on each other’s lives, and we’ll be restored by the fellowship.

And at some point during the day, either before or after meeting my friend, I will raise a chilled glass in silent toast – “To you, Mom – thanks for all you did. I’m glad I knew you, and humbled to be your daughter.”

There might be some tears, at that point, some moisture in my eyes that can’t be blinked away, and a lump in my throat that precludes talking, or even swallowing. And that will be ok. Being alive means feeling things. I don’t want to bury my emotions, drain them of power, suppress them into non-existence. I want to experience them, and acknowledge them, and move through them to the wonder that lies beyond. The wonder… that my mother, dead these 366 days, is still vibrantly alive in my thoughts, and in my heart. As long as someone remembers her, she will never truly die, and even though I can no longer reach out for the warmth of her hug, she hugs me every day, whenever I think of her and her constant and unyielding belief in me.

Indulge me, if you will, as I remember her. Or skip this post and read another. The choice is yours. My choice is to remember, and to honor the memory.

One year ago today… Dec 12, 2003, Mom went to sleep and never woke up. It was what she had wanted, when it was her time to go. Dad thought she was still sleeping that morning, because she had a slight smile on her face, but she was beyond sleep, even then.

As I drove from Atlanta to southern Ohio, behind the first bad ice-storm of the winter, I tried not to think, and to focus on driving. Singing along to the christmas CDs helped with that. But towards the end of my drive, I switched to Mannheim Steamroller’s Christmas CD (their first one), and while listening to the instrumentals, my thoughts finally found a voice. In the last 2 hours of my drive home, I drafted out what became the words that I shared at the funeral. I’d like to share them here, if you’ll allow.

Other than marriage, the parent-child relationship is probably the most complex relationship we’ll ever experience. Who doesn’t remember either saying or hearing, at some point in their life, “I hate you! I wish you were dead!”

And then one day you wake up, and they *are* dead, and your entire life is changed forever.

Hopefully, the “I hate you’s” were replaced by “I love you’s” over the years. Mine were, and I’m eternally grateful for that.

I’m still trying to realize what all I lost last week. Before I can do that, I need to realize what I had.

Mom was so much more than just a label – “wife,” “mother,” “sister,” “friend.” She was a human being, full of the complexity that we all are made of. I’m not going to tell you that my mom was perfect – she wasn’t. But I’ll let you in on a secret — neither am I. 🙂 She accepted my lack of perfection, and I learned that it didn’t matter if she wasn’t June Cleaver – what mattered was that she was my mother: the only one I’ll ever have. And now all I have of her are memories.

The nice thing about memories is that we can choose what we want to remember. I’m choosing to remember the good things, and the happy times.

I remember hot breakfasts on cold winter mornings before we would walk to school. I remember walking home at lunchtime to eat a hot meal that she fixed for us. I remember family dinners with home-cooked food, all made from scratch.

I remember our yard not having any grass, because all the neighborhood kids played at our house. I remember hallowe’en parties, with our basement turned into a haunted house. I remember a fairly happy childhood, with a mom who was involved. She had 4 kids in school, and juggled the class visitation and room mother duties somehow.

My mother, who was always nervous around large bunches of kids, became a den mother for my brother, and a girl scout troop leader for me and my sisters. She helped start an after-school activities program at our church.

As a kid, one of my major complaints was that she knew where the “off” button was on the TV set, and she would use it. 🙂 Instead, we would play games, or do arts and crafts, or even – gasp – clean house. Back then, I complained. Today, I tell my friends about these times, and treasure the memories.

We’re in the middle of the Christmas season, right now, and for me, that will always bring memories of Mom baking. She’d start baking before thanksgiving, and continue on until… forever, it seemed like. We had a cookie tree — a small, table-top artificial tree, decorated with candy canes and Christmas cookies. No matter how often we ate all the cookies off the tree, there were always more to replace them. Pies lined the counter, at Thanksgiving and Christmas both. And Mom made her pie-dough from scratch.

She made her bread from scratch, too — twelve loaves at a time, every week. Four kids go through a lot of bread, after all.

And in the middle of all her Christmas baking, she would find time to bake me a birthday cake, every year. I don’t know how she did it all, honestly.

She cared about people, deeply and genuinely, and people responded to that caring. My brother brought home a friend in the early ’80s — Mom gave Tom a “certificate of adoption” for Christmas one year, and treated him as if he were another son. Tom’s still a part of our family, 20 years later.

She was a determined woman. She knew what she wanted, and she made it happen. Although she didn’t graduate from high school, all of her kids did, and all of us attended at least *some* college classes.

She was terrified of lakes and pools, but she made sure we all learned how to swim. She didn’t drive, but she made sure that we all got our drivers’ licenses.

It’s hard to grasp what we’ve lost with her passing. She was our historian, and our glue. She was our constant – she would always be there, she would always love us, she would always believe in us, and want us to be happy.

She was our “doer” — “mom will do that,” we’d say. Or “ask Mom – she’ll know.” And she usually did.

She was a unique woman – an original. Not perfect, but not too shabby either. And she had a fantastic sense of humor.

I called her for Thanksgiving – a day late, as usual. We talked about how I hadn’t mailed her card yet (or her anniversary card, from late Oct, or Dad’s birthday card from mid-November, or even her own birthday card from last January) — I BUY the cards, I just forget to sign and send them. 🙂

A week later, I got 2 cards from her in the mail. One was my Christmas card, and the other one had a note that said “so you wont’ be embarrassed about how late your cards are.” I opened it up, and it was a Valentine’s Day card, for last Feb. I laughed out loud, and was going to call her and let her know how much I had enjoyed it. But it was the last week of the semester, and I had three papers due. Besides, I could tell her when I called her in a couple days, on my birthday, I thought.

I thought wrong, unfortunately. She didn’t make it to my birthday. But she knows now, how tickled I was. And she knows, better than I could ever find words to express, how very much I love her, and how much of her lives on in me.

We share the same faith, so I know I’ll see her again, as well. Until then, I’ll make do with my memories, and I’ll make sure I’m hanging onto the good ones.

02. December 2004 · Comments Off on Race for Adoption, Holiday Edition · Categories: General

As I said at the end of my earlier post, it just gets better.

Yesterday (12/1/04), we learned that Larry Birnbaum had contacted the RFA folks, and said he wanted to donate ANOTHER promising pup to Race for Adoption, with shares to be sold to a consortium again, and that he would AGAIN match the first 100 shares, resulting in another $20,000 to be donated to adoption groups. This time, both benefitting groups will be in FL – one is the FL group we were helping with the original RFA hound (Whistler’s Betty), and the other is another panhandle group, because of the huge overflow of dogs that exist in those areas. They’re working it out so the original NJ group will get a percentage of this dog’s wins, as well.

After this announcement was posted, Larry surprised us again (his generosity knows no bounds, from what I can see). He thinks it’s easier for folks to get excited about raising money when they can see a pup who’s already racing, and he’s got a Grade A girl running in St Petersburg. So he’s donating 50% of her last 3 purses to RFA, to help out the adoption groups, and generate excitement for the fund-raising. This is in addition to the new pup he’s promised that will run at Wheeling.

So there’s a very real possibility that in a mere 7 months, stemming from an idea in one man’s brain, almost $50,000 will be raised to support greyhound adoption.

That’s almost $50,000 raised without appealing to pity, or dredging up urban legends.

Almost $50,000 raised because the adoption programs and owners of adopted greyhounds teamed up with folks who work in the racing greyhound industry to put their money where their mouths are, and to make decisions that are in the best interests of the hounds.

Almost $50,000 raised because people have chosen to put aside their concerns about whether greyhound racing is good or evil, and concentrate on their area of agreement, which is how wonderful the dogs are, and how great it is to help them have a new life after retirement.

Now, I’m wondering… .why should the greyhound lovers have all the fun? If you’d like to join the consortium, and do your part to help these wonderful dogs find new lives as 45-mph couch potatoes, there’s a sponsorship form on the RFA website. If you follow the directions on the form, your donation will be tax-deductible, as well.

If you’re wondering why an animal adoption group needs so much money, there’s an article on the front page of the RFA website from one of the Florida groups, describing their typical expenses.

Thanks for reading. 🙂

02. December 2004 · Comments Off on Race for Adoption · Categories: General

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As the happy companion of two retired racing greyhounds (that’s Angie on the left, and Casey on the right. Angie is a retired brood, as well), I have a special place in my heart for these wonderful skinny-legged dogs, and the folks who work so hard to keep them fit and trim so they can perform at their very best athletic peak, as well as the folks who work so hard to find them homes when their racing career is over.

There is lots of greyhound information available on the internet, and not all of it is accurate. Some websites persist in perpetuating urban legends, and/or decades-old horror stories that villify people or businesses, either because they believe them to still be true, or because they want to eliminate greyhound racing. Other sites will tell you that there are no abuses in the system, that all dogs are well-treated, and no bad apples exist in the industry. As always, the truth lies somewhere in between those 2 extremes.

This post is not about the controversies. This post is about the dogs, and about a unique partnership between some NGA breeders/trainers (one in particular) and the folks who are interested in furthering greyhound adoption. It’s a partnership that deserves to be shouted from the hilltops, and shared across the land, not just in the somewhat isolated sphere of greyhound message boards.

Last May, Dennis McKeon, a former greyhound trainer who is fascinated by all things greyhound, and passionate about the history and breeding of the racing greyhound, was pondering the career of an Irish greyhound named Late Late Show, whose entire racing career had been dedicated to supporting greyhound adoption. He started chatting with a friend about how wonderful it would be to do a similar thing in the US, with a greyhound racing in the name of greyhound adoption, and the proceeds going to benefit the adoption programs. In Dennis’ words,

I ran this idea by Larry Birnbaum, who is the owner of one of the most promising and accomplished young sires
in American Racing Greyhound breeding today—-the beautiful and mercurial Craigie Whistler , winner of the 2001 Derby Lane Sprint Classic. I was hoping Larry might be able to steer me to a nice, promising litter—-maybe even one of Whistler’s.

I was totally unprepared for his reaction; “I would be happy to raise a track-ready pup at my expense. I would then sign ownership rights to you. Then you could sell this pup to the group and I’ll race it at Southland or Wheeling in our kennel at a 50% payout.” Larry is the co-owner of C&C Kennel which has bookings at both tracks.

Thus, Race for Adoption (RFA) was born.

Dennis posted his conversation on a couple greyhound message boards, with a request for participants to join a consortium. He was hoping to sell 50 shares, and the money raised would be split between two adoption programs: one in the Florida Panhandle, and one in New Jersey. The greyhound community was stepping up to the plate, buying shares in the consortium (25 in the first day after the initial posting), when Larry Birnbaum dropped another bombshell on us.

Two days after Dennis first told us about Larry’s generosity, we had 37 shares pledged for purchase (with a goal of at least 50). Larry was keeping track of what was going on, and he posted an offer on the message boards, stating that he would match the contributions for the first 100 shares sold. Since the shares were selling at $100 each, this meant he was not only going to donate a pup with good bloodlines, and the expense of raising/training said pup until it was ready to race, but he was also going to add $10,000 cash into the mix.

The remaining shares were sold in record time, and two adoption groups received checks for $10,000 each. A website was setup for the consortium members to keep informed on what was going on with “their” pup, and Larry donated one of Craigie Whistler’s offspring, a promising young lad named Whistler’s Stud. Unfortunately, there were some track quarantines this summer due to kennel cough, so Larry then shared the proceeds from one of his girls who was already racing at Wheeling, also a descendent of the ever impressive Whistler’s Craigie. Whistler’s Betty runs regularly at Wheeling, and 1/2 of all her proceeds go into the pot for the two adoption groups. Originally a temporary replacement, she became the permanent RFA hound when Stud had some setbacks during his training.

In the 6 months since Dennis first posited his idea, Race For Adoption has contributed over $28,000 to the two greyhound adoption groups. Twenty grand of that came from the initial sale of shares, and Larry’s generous matching contribution, but the rest has come from Betty’s winnings, t-shirt sales, and other donations.

But the story doesn’t end there. It just gets better.

20. November 2004 · Comments Off on My Dad, the Korean War Vet · Categories: General

I have a personal blog, which I’ve mentioned before, that I use for a variety of things, primarily thinking out loud, dealing with Mom’s death, etc (next month will be the one year point since she left us). Sometimes I wish I had a wider audience for the stuff I write there, and that’s when it finds its way over here to be cross-posted. I try not to *just* cross-post… I like to be original when I’m writing over here, as well.

I posted something to my personal blog yesterday, because it belongs there, but as I was writing it, I was wishing I was posting it here, because I want to hear from the veterans, and the history-buffs, and my personal blog has a regular readership of 1-3 people, as far as I can tell. LOL I was writing about my dad and his time in Korea, and realized how very little I know about the Korean Conflict (we never got that far in my school history classes. Sometimes we were lucky to get as far as WWII).

My dad, who turned 74 last week, has been having flashbacks to his time as a Marine in Korea. Or so my sister tells me. Thing is, anything my sister says has to be taken with a HUGE grain of salt (or maybe a bushel of salt?). So I called my aunt last night, and she told me that Dad had told her the same thing, but she doesn’t know if it’s true, or if it’s the power of suggestion, because some guy at the AmVets told him he could get more VA money if he was having flashbacks.

Dad has never mentioned flashbacks to anyone before, and has never had them before, so far as any of us know. But he’s never lost a spouse before either, and since she died peacefully in her sleep, he was the one who found her and realized that she would never wake up again.

My sister asked what we could do if Dad really was having flashbacks, and I told her we can pray that God will give him peace. She didn’t like my answer, but there’s really not a lot you CAN do, as I understand it, unless he’s willing to go to a psyhchiatrist, and I don’t see Dad doing that, unless it gets really bad.

Dad never talked about the war when I was growing up. Last year, after the funeral, as he and I were sitting around the kitchen table sharing a beer (well he was drinking beer – I might have been drinking coffee, because I have a self-imposed one beer limit), he talked about Korea.

Dad got over there in time for the push that went clear into… .some city that he can’t remember the name of. Anyway, they got there, but then got pushed all the way back to the beach, or something like that. (Any historians around here that can help me out?)

He fought in the Chosin Reservoir, he says, and didn’t have a bath/shower for several months, from the time he landed to the time he was medevaced out. Yeah, he was injured over there.

He and his buddies were hunkered down in their foxhole, keeping an eye out for any activity in front of them. It was stooopid cold, but they were doing ok, and there was no action to speak of.

Until some idiot parked a tank near their foxhole.

Suddenly they were taking enemy fire from every which-way. The enemy eventually managed to hit the tank and destroy it, and Dad caught some shrapnel in his right wrist.

He stopped a moment, telling me this story, poured himself another beer, and took a long drink before he continued. He caught shrapnel in his wrist, but one of his buddies was hit in the hip. It entered him in one hip, just above the thigh, and exited somewhere above his hip joint on the other side of his body. Dad said his buddy was alive when they left there, but he has no idea whatever happened to him. at this point, I don’t think Dad even remembered his name. I forget what he told me about the 3rd guy that was with them. I thought he said that all 3 of them survived the tank explosion, but they were all wounded.

My aunt told me that Dad told her about seeing his buddy’s head blown off right in front of him, there in the foxhole. I know that’s not what he told me last year, but he might have been trying to spare me, ya know?

Does anyone know about combat flashbacks, and if so, can you shed some light on this for me? Is it common for them to be suppressed until over 50 years later? Should we be worried about him, do you think?

17. November 2004 · Comments Off on Asking for Help…. · Categories: General

Which is not something I do often, or well.

I have a job interview tomorrow. Actually, it’s a SECOND interview (hooray!). It’s a phone interview, as was the first, because the folks I’m talking to are in different states. If tomorrow’s interview goes well (and it should), the next interview will be face-to-face in a nearby suburb, and include a 20-30 minute teaching demonstration (it’s a client trainer position).

So if any of y’all pray, or think good thoughts, or whatever, please do so for me tomorrow. I’ve been unemployed since Lucent laid me off in Jan 2003, and underemployed (part-time/sporadic independent contractor) since last May. Student loans will only take me so far (I’m in grad school), and at this point I’ve no idea how I’m going to pay my Dec rent, because my next paycheck won’t be enough to cover it.

I would really, really, really like to get back into a good full-time position, such as this one seems to be. So I’m asking for prayer support (or whatever you prefer to call it if you don’t like that term) for tomorrow’s interview. Everything I read/hear about this company and position sounds good to me. And they keep telling me that I sound good to them, which is very nice to hear. 🙂

My first interview was with the hiring manager, and he told me I’m an attractive candidate, but he also said that they’re not in a hurry to fill the position, although he *would* like to have it filled by Christmas. I’m asking God to bring me on board there in mid-Dec, so I’ll get a paycheck before my January rent is due.

Thanks ever so much for your prayers and well-wishes (and Sgt Mom, as soon as I land this puppy, I’ll be contacting you for an autographed copy of your book – I’ve not been able to afford it yet) 🙂

(We now return you to your standard blogging fare)

UPDATE:

It went WELL. They’ll be calling me to schedule a face-to-face interview with teaching demo. Will give more updates later – need to run or I’ll be late for school tonight.

Thanks for the prayers and warm wishes. I really appreciate them. 🙂

17. November 2004 · Comments Off on Happy Birthday, Daddy! · Categories: General, Home Front

Cross-posted from my personal blog….

My favorite thing to do on the morning of Nov 16 each year is to call my dad and sing happy birthday to him. 🙂

Me and Dad, Dec 2003

Today was no exception. I sent him flowers, too – a nice autumn bouquet to brighten up his day. They arrived shortly before I called him, he said.

He’s 74 today, and it’s only by the grace of God that we have him with us at all. In July of 1976 he had a stroke. Well, it started out as an aneurism, and it gave him a really bad headache. In fact, it was so bad that my mom called the emergency squad to come and get him (she didn’t drive).

Anyway… the squad took him to the hospital, and they determined that it was an aneurism on one of the 2 major blood vessels that we have in the back of our necks, and they said they would need to do surgery and repair it. (He had aneurisms on both of those blood vessels, but only one was causing a problem, so they were going to do that one first).

Later that week they did the surgery. Dad was prepped, anesthetized, and wheeled in to the OR. The surgeon opened up the area where the aneurism was, and no sooner did he expose it than it burst. Because he was right there, he was able to clamp it and minimize the damage. Had it happened when Dad was anywhere else other than right there on the operating table with the aneurism already exposed, he would have died.

People used to tell Mom that it was a shame this had to happen when Dad was on vacation. We understand their point, but disagree with their conclusion.

Yes, it sucks to get seriously ill when you’re on vacation.

However, the vacation was being spent at home, working on our new house. We had built it the previous summer, and to save money we had the company only put up the shell of the house, and do the electrical/plumbing etc., things that had to be done by certified folks, and pass inspection. We were doing the finishing work ourselves. Mom and Dad, with friends and family, put on the vinyl siding, installed the shingles on the roof, put up the drywall, laid the hardwood floors, etc. So Dad was using his vacation time to do that kind of stuff.

On top of that…..

Dad drove an 18-wheeler around a 7-state area. Had he been at work, driving a tractor-trailer on the highway when that aneurism burst, not only would it have killed him, but who knows what other damage might have been done?

So all things considered, it was a blessing that he got sick while on vacation.

They repaired the other aneurism in Oct 1976, and Dad has been going strong ever since. It took him awhile to get back up to a functional level, and he *is* handicapped, but he can take care of himself, and up until this past summer he was mowing lawns for a bunch of elderly folks in his town. He finally decided that he’s allowed to retire, so he’s not going to do that anymore.

I saw him a couple weeks ago, and he’s looking good. I wish I could have been there today to give him a hug for his birthday, but I called, and his card’s in the mail, and his flowers are there, so those will have to act as his hugs, for me.

I love him more than I know how to express in words, but I’m sure that he knows that.

13. November 2004 · Comments Off on Ben’s Game · Categories: General

Just read about this in Guideposts Magazine (nov 2004, p12)…

9-yo Ben Duskin has acute lymphoblastic leukemia. Diagnosed with it at age 5. As a way of keeping his thoughts positive to help his own healing, Ben (who loves video games) pictured his medicine like a giant PacMan, gobbling up all the cancer cells in his body. Ben’s convinced that the visualisation helped him into remission.

So he said he wanted a video game that would help kids fight cancer. Finally, the Make-A-Wish Foundation found a programmer who would do it. Eric (the programmer) has created games for Windows, Mac, Nintendo and Playstation, including some Indiana Jones games and some Star Wars games.

Ben & Eric worked together weekly for seven months to create “Ben’s Game.”

Players zoom around on a hover board, stocking up on medicine, health, attitude and weapons to fight cancer. They must defeat seven monsters – like the baldness causing “Q-ball” – to win shields that prevent the side-effects of chemotherapy.

Here’s the link to the game: Ben’s game

Kudos to Eric Johnston and LucasArts, for making a little boy’s wish come true.

The website also has a page where you can get updated on Ben’s health (he’s 10 now, and the leukemia’s back, but it’s responding well to his new drug regimen.) There are also links on the page to learn more about leukemia, and links to info on being a marrow donor.

Check it out, and pass it along.

13. November 2004 · Comments Off on An American Hero · Categories: General

Wandering the web, I ran across this post at Mudville Gazette.

Go read it, about Army National Guard Sgt Stayton, who once upon a time was Maj Stayton in the Air National Guard, a USAF Academy grad and fighter pilot, until he left the military to spend time with his family and build up his law practice.

Today he’s a platoon leader in Iraq, because after 9/11 he felt the need to give some more back to his country than he had already given us with his previous service.

On a trip to his summer home in Arkansas in 2002, he stopped at an Army National Guard armory in Arkadelphia, where a recruiter listened to Sergeant Stayton’s story and promised him a spot if he passed a physical exam. That was easy for Sergeant Stayton, a stocky, muscular man with cropped graying hair. After nearly a year of bureaucratic snarls during which the Guard lost his records twice, Sergeant Stayton finally took his oath of service in June 2003 and reported for two weeks of annual training.

What’s amazing to me is not that that Sgt Stayton is over in Iraq, giving back to his country again. I’m amazed because the paper where Greyhawk found the article was none other than the New York Times (registration required).

Thank you, Sgt Stayton, for your service, both then and now.

11. November 2004 · Comments Off on For our Veterans · Categories: General

Thank you.

In your honor, a couple small bits of rhyme, both written while I was still active duty. One was written for Desert Storm, the other at the closing of my GLCM missile base in Belgium. Both are still applicable, I think, if perhaps a little dated.

Mary

TO OUR TROOPS IN THE GULF — A SALUTE
1991

Storming the desert on wings borne of flame,
riding jet-trails for freedom, not for personal fame.
Supported by many, but followed by few,
we’ve a word for our soldiers: Our hearts are with you!

Yellow ribbons adorning our trees and our cars,

Many windows displaying flags and blue stars
give a strong indication of pride in our troops,
so don’t be dismayed by a few hostile groups.

Know that you’re loved, and missed by us all,
that we appreciate your quickness to answer the call
of your country, despite your passion for peace,
and we’ll welcome you home, when hostilities cease.

Your families are waiting to be held in your arms,
and your bravery helps keep all our children from harm.
We send you our love, and our prayers, and this poem,
as a way to say “THANK YOU”, and please — “HURRY HOME.”

Mission Accomplished
1988

The klaxon of freedom rings down through the ages
The players may change, and also the stages
but never the plot — today it’s the same,
of those who serve Liberty, without seeking fame.

Four years, and more, of the mud and the rain,
of doing our best — not for personal gain —
not for wealth, nor rewards,
that our people could keep,
but so children all over the world safely sleep.

Four years, and more, of standing our ground,
of doing our best, and not lounging around.
Weeks spent in the woods, regardless of weather,
with “A Flight” — all groups from base working together.

Four years, and more, and our goal is achieved.
The treaty is signed; Excalibur sheathed.
But don’t fear increased danger with your guardian gone,
the memories of GLCM will long carry on.

Because all who were here gave all of their best,
the world will remember Uncle Sam’s GLCM test.
They’ll say that the missiles accomplished it all,
but even missiles need people to answer their call.

“The mission comes first”;
we know that it’s true.But no mission could work without people like you.
Long days make long weeks, but we got the job done.
Our mission’s accomplished — war’s over — we won!

Comiso, Florennes, Greenham Common, and all,
you’ve proven our point ’cause you answered our call.
You did it all — in all conditions, to boot —
Our hat’s off to you, in a GLCM salute.

Dedicated to all the men and women everywhere who made up the GLCM TEAM.

08. November 2004 · Comments Off on Iraqi Govt Online · Categories: General, Iraq: The Good

Courtesy of Andy Chrenkoff, we find out that the Iraqi Interim Government now has an online presence. Be advised, it’s still in the process of being created, and many links go nowhere, but it’s there.

I must confess that I’ve not been a regular reader of Chrenkoff’s “Good News from Iraq” series, but I think that’s changing, effective today.

I thought his info on their interest and excitement about their upcoming elections (still 2 months away) was a great read, but the part that really excited me was this:

Powerline blog, via one of its readers, brings to our attention the results of an opinion poll, which is not getting any publicity outside Iraq. “[The] poll taken in Baghdad, Mosul and Dehok and published in Iraq on October 25. The poll probably over-sampled Sunnis, which makes its results even more striking:

“63% of Iraqis say that the withdrawal of American and allied forces will not be in the best interest of Iraq, it will undermine the work towards security and control of the country. 27% say that it would be in the best interest of Iraq. 9% had no opinion.

“58% say that terrorists do the kidnappings and assassination of police and soldiers. 9% say that patriots fighting for Iraq carry them out. 32% say ignorant Iraqis who have been brain washed & misled carry them out.

“89% said that the terrorism, kidnapping, beheadings and assassination of police and security forces do not help the freeing of Iraq and the building of a stable country. 6% said that it would help free Iraq and build stability. 4% had no opinion.”

It seems that insurgents are failing not only to win popular support but also to slow down the march towards democracy. Iraq’s Shia religious establishment have now thrown their weight and moral authority behind the election:

07. November 2004 · Comments Off on Another Interesting Voice · Categories: General, Politics

Sunday is my day to peruse the blogosphere, which is probably my equivalent of other folks’ reading the Sunday paper or watching the morning talk shows. One of my favorite bloggers, Julie Neidlinger, linked to a new blog she had found after Yahoo! changed its format. Today was my day to check out the new blog she found.

I liked it.

The blog is called “The Moderate Left.” I’ve actually been able to read several of his posts in a row without raising my blood pressure, so I’ll be adding him to my bookmarks, as well as to the blogroll on my personal blog.

I especially liked his post called “Being Respectful.” You’ll have to scroll down to it, because I couldn’t find a permalink. That particular post was generated by this particular “cartoon” that has apparently been making the rounds of the ‘net. He thinks it’s counter-productive (it is), and hurts their cause (it does).

Check him out. He’s worth your time, I think.

07. November 2004 · Comments Off on “That Vision Thing” · Categories: General, Politics

Interesting article in the NYT (registration req), by Andrei Cherny, Kerry’s Speech-writer. I found it by following a link in one of the 96 comments that have sprouted on The Backseat Philosopher’s post to his fellow democrats (mentioned earlier in this blog). Here are some small snippets of his thoughts.

Any time Democrats spend in the coming weeks discussing the merits of our past candidates’ personalities or their campaigns’ personnel will be time wasted.

The overarching problem Democrats have today is the lack of a clear sense of what the party stands for. For years this has been a source of annoyance for bloggers and grass-roots activists. And in my time working for Al Gore and John Kerry, it certainly left me feeling hamstrung.

Democrats have a collection of policy positions that are sensible and right. John Kerry made this very clear. What we don’t have, and what we sorely need, is what President George H. W. Bush so famously derided as “the vision thing” – a worldview that makes a thematic argument about where America is headed and where we want to take it.

For most of the 20th century, Democrats had a bold vision: we would use government programs to make Americans’ lives more stable and secure. In 1996, President Clinton told us this age had passed, that “the era of big government is over.” He was right – the world had changed. But the party has not answered the basic question: What comes next?

and from near the end….

I don’t pretend to know exactly what the party should do now. But I do know that we better start answering some important questions. What is our economic vision in a globalized world? How do we respond to the desire of many Americans to have choices and decision-making power of their own? How can we speak to Americans’ moral and spiritual yearnings? How can our national security vision be broader than just a critique of the Republican’s foreign policy? If we sweep this debate under the rug, four years from now another set of people around another conference table will be struggling with the same issues we did. And America cannot afford the same result.

Cherny’s question “What comes next?” reminds me of the conversations taking place after the fall of the Soviet Union. When the Berlin Wall came down, when the Soviet Union fragmented back into separate countries, there was much discussion about what the world would look like and be like now that the Cold War had ended.

Maybe Republicans (and all other parties) should be asking themselves that question, as well? What comes next? Where do we go from here? What do we want for America, and for the world we live in? And how do we get there from here?